"They're a completely different child now school's finished." It's something I hear from parents every single year. Sometimes it's said with relief. Sometimes with confusion. And sometimes with worry. "They've slept until lunchtime every day." "All they want to do is play on the Xbox." "They're more emotional than ever." "I thought things would get better once school finished, but they actually seem worse." If you've found yourself thinking any of those things over the first